Do you ever feel like…”why don’t they ever ask, or even care when I talk about our adoption process?” I dealt with this some at the beginning of our process and some from time to time as the process goes on…
I have read a few books and I have had to learn that, not everyone shares your passion for adoption. They may not even understand the ins and outs of adoption, so they don’t understand what it is that you are going through on a daily basis. I have to admit, in the beginning, it hurt and now I am dealing with things a lot better…still some hurt but I am better J They don’t understand and that’s okay!!!!
I realized going through our own adoption process, that I needed to apologize to my brother/sister-in-law. I feel that I wasn’t as “into” their adoption of my nephew as she probably needed me to be. She was and is very understanding and has forgiven me…thank God! LOL
Just know and keep in mind to be thankful when people do care and ask how things are going!!!
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